St Mary's Church, Ballinger 


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Welcome to the dedicated page for St Mary’s Church, Ballinger, one of two smaller churches within the Great Missenden Parish.

St. Mary’s Church is a place of peace for all, perfect for those who would like a contemplative moment alone with their thoughts.
 

Services

We have Said Eucharist with hymns on the first Sunday of every month and special services at Easter, Harvest and at Christmas. Refreshments are served after the 9.30 monthly Eucharist service.

We are licensed for weddings, blessings, renewal of vows and baptisms and can comfortably seat 40+ people.

Services at all of the Churches are detailed here, and other events can be found here.

History

​St Mary’s is a small mission church, constructed in brick and flint with white interior walls.
 
The church was built by Mr A E Watson of The Lee Manor in 1873 "as a school and lecture room for the poor". He also commissioned two cottages (The Watson Cottages) in the grounds, to house the caretakers of the church.

One of these families, the Evans, had a long and close association with St Mary's beginning from 1920 and lasting for over 50 years. During this time, the building was used both by The Church of England and The Free Church with services alternating between morning and afternoon until the 1960s when The Free Church closed.

A Dame School was run for small children at St. Mary's during the week by a Miss Beeson. Dorothy Evans remembered putting their slates out and helping to light the stove, although she herself went to Lee Common School.

Before the War Memorial Village Hall was built after the First World War, St. Mary’s was used as the village hall.

Restoration

It was recently restored in 2023 when the rendering on the front was removed and the brickwork was repaired by expert stonemason, Jon Suttle.

The stained glass in the two memorial windows on the south side were restored by Bryony Benwell from The Glasshouse, Lee Common, whilst the frames were crafted by Alasdair Cunningham from Great Missenden. Finally the building was redecorated throughout, both internally and externally by Becky Bazzard and Vik Harris from Bazzard & Harris

In the summer of 2024, our porch was repaired and the roof retiled by Carl Stevens a local builder and was funded by the Wilson Family who had a great deal to do with the Church especially Brian and Barbara who lived in South Heath. Brian was a lay reader and took many of the Services and Barbara ran the local playgroup. The porch has been named the Wilson Grey memorial porch in memory of the Wilsons and Dorothy Grey, a former organist.

The school bell was restored by Hadrian, an ex royal marine, when he was living in Ballinger Row in memory of his fallen comrades. 

Fundraising

We have an ongoing programme of maintenance and repairs for this beautiful Victorian Church, whose architecture is typical of the hilltop villages in which it sits.

If you would like to help to preserve the Church for future generations, please consider donating to the St Mary’s charity:

Name: The Vicar and Churchwardens Watson Charity
Bank: TSB
Sort Code: 30-93-67
Account Number: 00117048

If you would like to offer your time and skills in helping with its upkeep, please contact the Church office.

Location

 

 

Directions from Great Missenden

Depart Great Missenden on the Chesham Road, and take the first (steep) left turn to Frith Hill, continuing through the hamlet of South Heath and after another mile into Ballinger. After passing Ballinger War Memorial on your left, take the next left turn into Blackthorne Lane, and park in the small car park adjacent to Ballinger Cricket Club. The Church is a short walk down the lane, on the right hand side.

 

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Planning your Visit

New to Church?

Welcome! Whether you've just moved to the area, or have a new interest in our church, we hope that you can find all of the information that you need within our website.
 
Of course, if you have further questions, we welcome you to get in touch.

FAQs and Key Information
   

Where & when does the church meet?

We hold a number of services across the parish:
 
We have a Communion service at St Peter and St Paul Great Missenden at 10am every Sunday. We also hold services at 8am and 6pm each Sunday.
 
Services at Ballinger are generally at 9.30am on the first Sunday of every month, and services at Little Hampden on the second and fourth Sundays at 11:30am with coffee at 11am.
 
Details of all our services can be found on our Services page.
   

What should I expect when I visit the church?

You will be welcomed by the sidespeople who will give you the books you’ll need. They will also be able to answer any questions you may have. There are no set seats, so please sit wherever you feel most comfortable. 
 
The service lasts for one hour and follows the order set out in the booklet.
 
Tea, coffee and biscuits are served after the 10am service, where there is plenty of time to meet people and ask any questions you may have.
   

Are there any activities for my children?

We have two Junior Church groups that meet regularly. Head to our Children & Young People page to find out everything you need to know. 
 
We also have an unsupervised crêche area within the Church and your children are welcome to play during the service.
 
Children may stay with their parents at the start of the service, or sit with their friends as we begin our worship. Junior Church usually leaves our main service after we have started our worship with some singing.
   

Is there a dress code?

No! Please just be yourself and come dressed in your 'normal' clothes.

Do I have to take communion?

It is completely up to you. God's table is open to all. You are welcome to come up for a blessing, or bring your children up for a blessing. Alternatively you can stay in your seat.
 

No, donating is entirely optional. We have a time of offering during each service when a plate is passed around for cash or contactless card donations. There is always a contactless card reader and cash box near the door to the church, or you can donate online. You’re very welcome in church whether you make a donation or not.   
   
Can I get married, Christen my children or have a funeral at the Church?

For more information on marriage, christenings and funerals at our Church please visit the Weddings & Christenings and Funerals pages of our website.
 

I have more questions, how can I get in touch and ask them.

Please feel free to contact us and we’ll do our best to answer any questions you may have.